co-regulation
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What’s Your Plan for Today? The Reality of Parenting Exhaustion

Four school runs. A full working day. Hours spent helping my son regulate after school. This is the invisible reality of parenting exhaustion when you’re raising a PDA child struggling with school. Continue reading
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What Colour is Calm?

What does calm actually feel like for a PDA child? A heartfelt look at anxiety, meltdowns, and the reality of PDA emotional regulation in everyday life. Continue reading
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Why is School Avoidance back? When the PDA Burnout Cycle starts again on Mother’s Day

This one is personal. It started with Mother’s Day. My son came home from football and I knew — before the day was out — that something had shifted. He didn’t go to school the next day. Or the day after. In this week’s post I’m writing about the PDA burnout cycle — why our… Continue reading
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Why does the day feel like it lasts for hours but night only feels like an hour?

After one of our worst nights in a long time, my son asked me a question that stopped me in my tracks. This post reflects on sleep, safety, neurodivergence, and how two people can live the same hours but experience them entirely differently. Continue reading
